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Tips!
Here are some helpful tips and answers to frequently asked questions
that will help you with your taping and tugging. Additional tips will be
added to this page from time to time as they become known from the
discussions on the restoration mailing list.
CONTENTS:
TIPS:
- DON'T STRETCH TOO HARD: Most men get
over-anxious to make progress during the first few weeks or months of
restoration, and apply too much pressure to the T-Tape. This generates
invisible micro-tears in the skin, and often even causes visible damage
including sores, torn skin, swelling, and blisters. When this happens,
you will lose taping time waiting for the damage to heal. Even worse,
such damage can cause scarring and stretch marks which are permanent,
ugly, and can even interfere with penile functioning. Here is the advise
of experts: Have patience. Restoration using T-Tapes is the
fastest non-surgical process, but it will take a year or longer (depending
on your goals) to complete. Don't get over-ambitious with the stretching
-- the best results come with constant, even stretching at a low enough
tension to avoid any pain or skin damage. Start with a tension of 16 or
18 ounces (see note below) -- if you think you want higher tension, work
up from here very cautiously. Use the "water cup" method described on
Page 1 to determine needed amount of stretch in your elastic strap.
One more time: If you are getting recurring skin damage, YOU ARE
PULLING TOO HARD -- back off dude! You will make better progress by
just settling into a routine of constant gentle stretching.
Note: Those with a larger diameter shaft can normally add some
extra ounces to your pulling force because a larger circumference needs a
higer ovarall pulling force to yield the same "per inch" pulling force.
The length of your your penis is not the controlling factor here -- just
your diameter.
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- DO I NEED TO STRETCH ALL OF THE TIME? It's
important to keep tension on for nearly 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, if
at all possible. If you stretch nearly all of the time, your progress
will be much greater. The tension first stretches the skin, and the skin
cells elongate as a result. This stimulates the growth of new cells.
When you stop stretching for a while, the elongated cells go back to their
round shape. The next time you stretch, it takes a while before the cells
elongate again so you can once-again, begin to grow new cells. Another
reason to stretch nearly constantly is to keep the glans covered, which
will allow the skin on the glans to become thinner and much more
sensitive, which is what you want! If you are unable to stay strapped up
for any reason (swimming for example), use an O-Ring or Tape Ring (see the
O-Ring tip) to hold the skin forward over your glans to keep some tension
on the skin and to keep your glans covered so it won't dry out.
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- WHAT KIND OF TAPE IS BEST? Most people
find 2" wide 3M Micropore Paper Tape is the best. Its inexpensive, it
sticks good, it can be removed easily (see tip below), and it is soft and
pliable so pinching of the skin at the pleats is minimized. If you can't
find it at your local drug store, try going to a hospital pharmacy -- they
will either have it or can order it, and normally it will be priced in the
range of $2.00 to $5.00 per roll, but occasionally you may find it at an
even lower bargain price. Below is a source where you can order online:
Richmark Medical Supply Inc.
West Chicago, Illinois
1-800-882-8889
http://www.rmsupplies.com/
$7.50 for six rolls (2" x 10 yards) plus shipping.
To find Micropore, click on the "Wound Care" icon at the
bottom of their homepage.
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- REMOVING T-TAPES: Lots of people seem
to have trouble getting T-Tapes to come loose when they want to remove
them. You will find that Micropore tape comes off effortlessly if you
soak it in warm water for a few minutes first. So take a nice leisurely
shower or bath, or just submerge your taped shaft in a glass of warm water
for a few minutes while you are brushing your teeth or shaving, and then
gently remove the tape. Even though the tape may seem to still be tightly
stuck, once you get your fingernail under part of it, you can normally
just gently peel it off without any pain. If there is remaining adhesive,
a little rubbing alcohol on a wash cloth or facial tissue removes it
nicely, and also prepares you for the next taping (as mentioned above).
Remember, a warm water soaking will loosen Micropore tape -- if it
doesn't, just soak a bit longer. If the shower doesn't seem to do it for
you, take a nice bath and relax a while.
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- FINDING THE EQUILIBRIUM LINE:
Stretching from your point of equilibrium is important primarily to keep
the tension balanced between the inner and outer skin. Balanced tension
assures faster growth of new skin -- if one side takes all the tension,
that is the only side which will grow. Unbalanced tension also will make
the T-Tape bond fail prematurely.
Here's how to find your equilibrium line: While flaccid, pull your shaft
skin as far forward as you can without causing pain. Pull on the inside
skin and outside skin a little until it seems like the tension on each is
about equal. The fold-line at the end of this skin is your point of
equilibrium -- mark it with a series of dots using a non-toxic marker (try
Crayola washable markers -- non-toxic and wash off easily). The
line on most men will normally be located a little ways toward your body
from your scar line, but everyone is different. Install the centerline of
the T-Tape head on the equilibrium line. New restorers sometimes have
trouble finding their "equilibrium line" since the shaft skin is still so
tight. If you just can't seem to find the line, I recommend you install
the T-Tape so that the edge closest to your glans is just about on the
scar line. After a couple of weeks of gentle stretching, you should have
enough new skin so that finding the equilibrium line will be much
easier.
By the way, some people's equilibrium line does not run straight around
the shaft -- it may be farther forward on the top or the bottom because
they were cut unevenly. Since the tape is not very flexible, it is hard
to install it on a curving line -- so just install the centerline of the
T-Tape straight around your shaft on the best "median" equilibrium line
that you can. With a few weeks of stretching, you will have grown enough
new skin on the "tight" side that your equilibrium line will be much
straighter.
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- POSITIONING THE T-TAPE END-JOINT: When
you wrap a T-Tape around your shaft, the joint where the two ends meet is
often a weak spot in the system. Sometimes the tension from the elastic
begins to tear the adhesive loose from your skin at this joint, or even
may tear the leg of the T away from the T-head. This results in a little
less tension on the skin at that spot, which over time may mean reduced
skin growth there. To avoid this, I recommend moving the joint formed by
the T-Tape ends each time you install. One time 45 degrees to the right
(about 1:30 on the clock), the next time straight up (high noon!), and the
next 45 degrees to the left (10:30 on the clock). Rotating between these
three positions should assure even growth.
While not shown in the pictures in the T-Tape Picture Book, I have been
using a new variation for installing the tapes which helps reduce problems at
the joint. Rather than cutting out a piece of the T-leg as is shown in
the T-Tape Picture Book, I now just make a single straight cut, adjacent
to the T-leg, on the T-head which is closest to the glans. I do not
remove any of the T-leg. This allows for an over-lapping of the T-legs at
the joint, which minimizes problems at the joint.
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- IMPROVING TAPE ADHESION: Make sure your
shaft skin is clean and dry. Skin oils, lotions, or old adhesive will
drastically reduce the time the tape will stay adhered, and sometimes
interferes with even installing the T-Tape. So taping after a bath or
shower is good. If you can't bathe at the time, at least wash your shaft
skin before taping, and then make sure the area is thoroughly dry
before taping. Also, gently swabbing the area where the tape will be
applied with a wash cloth or facial tissue moistened with a little Rubbing
Alcohol will help remove oils from the skin surface, enhancing adhesion.
The alcohol will also sterilize the area, which is good since stretching
often produces invisible micro-tears to the shaft skin. Another trick
used by some is to apply a thin coating of Tincture of Benzoin --
available at most pharmacies -- to the skin where the tape will be applied
(let it dry before applying the tape). One more thing -- sometimes you
may get some tape that is old or defective, and it doesn't stick as well.
If that happens, buy some new tape. I also recommend that you don't make
up more T-Tapes time than you will use within a couple of weeks -- the
adhesive ages more rapidly once it is removed from the roll. You may want
to store extra T-Tapes in a plastic baggie to keep the air from drying out
the adhesive.
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- SUSPENDER CLIP KEEPS COMING OFF: There are
several brands of clips commonly available. You want to find ones that
will get a good grip on things without pulling off. The worst kind of
clips are the ones that just have the end of their jaws folded toward
each other. Most often when these jaws are closed, the teeth are not
aligned with each other very well, and they will pull off your T-Tape
quite easily. Better clips have nylon or rubber pads on one or both jaws,
and these really get a good grip on things. The ones in the photos in
this Picture Book have nylon pads on each jaw, and the pads have teeth on
them
that interlock with the mating pad. These clips work very well. By the
way, if you have trouble with a clip slipping off, open the clip and put a
small screw driver or other metal object towards the back of the jaws.
Then pinch the jaws shut until they bend slightly -- this will increase
their clamping force when closed. If that doesn't help, look around for a
different brand of clip.
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- PLEATING AND ATTACHING THE CLIP: Many
people ask how to fold the end of the T-Tape before clipping, and how to
keep the clip from pulling off of the tape. A good folding method is to
make numerous small "accordion" pleats -- keep each one about 1/4" or
smaller in size. These small pleats will reduce pinching where the folds
meet the part of the tape attached to your skin. Also, after installing a
new T-Tape, it helps to flex it a bunch of times to soften it up -- that
"knocks the corners off" of the folds and minimizes pinching. The
thickness of the numerous pleats gives the suspender clip something to
bite into, which helps keep it from slipping off.
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- EXTENDING TAPE LIFE: Perspiration and
drops of urine often keep the "inside" of your developing foreskin moist,
which causes the adhesive on the inside part of the T-head tape to lose
its bond. This results in greater stress on the remaining outside part of
the T-head tape, which can cause sores or damage to the skin and usually
results in the T-Tape pulling off before it should. Even one drop of
moisture can cause this problem. To help prevent this, there are a couple
of easy things you can do:
- Always dry thoroughly after urinating. Even a single drop of
urine can cause an adhesive failure because it is trapped under your new
foreskin and can't evaporate. Milk all the urine you can out (tip: try
milking starting from the base of your scrotum), and dry the glans with a
piece of toilet tissue. If you are at home, and accidentally get the tape
moist, dry it with a hair dryer for a minute or two before the adhesive
comes loose.
- If the tape on the inside of your new foreskin is coming unstuck,
try this -- it will fix the problem! Place a small piece of
absorbent material on the head of the glans when wearing a T-tape. A
small circular or square pad made from soft paper towel, facial
tissue, or toilet paper works fine. Place the pad on the end of your
glans, and as you draw the T-Tape leg forward, tuck the edges of the pad
in under your new foreskin. This is comfortable, and it generally will
extend the T-Tape life by a factor of MANY times -- numerous people say it
will stay stuck for 4 or 5 days unless you remove it yourself first! My
favorite is to use a small piece of good quality soft paper towel like
Brawny -- cut about a 2" square, fold it in quarters, and trim the
corners off to make it round (but leave a small hinge on the folded side
so all the pieces stay together). It is soft, very absorbent, and does
not disintegrate and leave little pieces stuck to your glans when
you try to remove it like tissues frequently do. One pad will last all
day with no problem. If you are not at home, you can always make a pad by
folding a piece of toilet paper in thirds each direction to make about a
1" square pad -- you can tear the corners off to make a round pad which is
quite comfortable.
- As an alternate to an absorbent pad, some people like to use a ball of
absorbent material, such a several squares of 2-ply toilet paper crumbled
into a ball (2, 4, or 6 squares depending on how much foreskin you have
grown), or a cotton ball. Putting this in your tunnel of new foreskin
before clipping-up will absorb moisture, and will also hold the end of the
foreskin and tape out into a circle, avoiding pinching which can otherwise
occur where the pleats in the tape intercept the skin. If you use cotton,
you still may want to put a little piece of good quality paper towel over
the glans first, as the cotton tends to stick to the glans otherwise (you
end up with a beard when you remove the cotton!). One downside of using
this "ball" at night -- if you get a nocturnal erection, you may wake up
in considerable discomfort because the ball can prevent things from
expanding. Another variation of the ball technique is to fashion facial
tissues into a small cone with a concave bottom -- this will be very
comfortable once you figure out the best shape.
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- WHY DOESN'T THE TAPE STICK AS WELL AS IT USED
TO?? There have been several questions on the restoration mailing list
wondering why the tape seemed to stick OK when restoration was first
started, but as more foreskin developed the tape no longer adhered as
well. Here are the two main reasons I think this happens:
1) As more skin develops, the part of the tape on the "inside" of your new
foreskin is unable to breath (i.e. sweat and other moisture can't easily
evaporate). The moisture breaks the adhesive bond. This puts more strain
on the tape on the outside of your shaft skin than it can hold, and it
eventually pulls off (often with some skin damage). See the EXTENDING
TAPE LIFE tip (above) for the solution to this.
2) Even though you tape when erect, after restoring for a few weeks or
months you have extra skin on the shaft which may not be fully stretched
longitudinally. If you tape without stretching this extra skin tight
toward the base of your penis, the skin will try to stretch out until it
is tight as soon as you apply tension from the elastic strap. This causes
the skin near the tape edges to be overstrained once you apply the
elastic. The overstrained adhesive fails early in that area, putting the
full strain of the elastic on the remaining tape. Since that is a reduced
area, it is also overstrained which results in the T-Tape partially or
fully pulling off. To avoid this, once you start getting lots of extra
shaft skin, you must keep it stretched tight by pulling the extra skin
toward the base of you penis as you install the T-Tape.
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- KEEPING TAPE DRY WHILE SHOWERING: This
topic has been extensively discussed on the mailing list. Several people
say they put a plastic sandwich bag over their penis and balls, and fasten
it with a rubber band. One person said he puts a condom on over the tape,
hooks a suspender clip to the tape through the tip of the condom, and
keeps the water out by tying the clip off to something above his waist so
his penis stays pointed upward (to avoid injury in case you slip, I
suggest tying it to your neck rather than a fixed object). Another fellow
said he showers with the tape on and just lets it get wet. Afterward, he
uses a hair dryer to dry it, claiming the tape comes out nearly as good as
new. My two cents worth: Making the T-Tapes and applying them using the
method shown in this picture book is so quick and easy and cheap that it
is often less trouble to just remove the old tape during your shower or
bath, and then just apply a new one after you dry off.
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- WHAT KIND OF ELASTIC STRAPS WORK THE BEST?
The straps described in the Picture Book are the "around-the-waist" strap
for daytime use, and the "over-the-shoulder" strap for night time use.
These are good, all-purpose straps that are very easy to make and will
work pretty well for everyone. However, there are several other types of
more elaborate straps that you can use, and personal preferences vary
widely on this topic. Two fairly common types are "leg straps" that
fasten just below the knee or to the ankle.
Some people use the around-the-waist strap or leg-strap day and night, but
most find the over-the-shoulder strap best for night use because this
strap pulls the penis more or less straight up towards your belly button,
which allows for nocturnal erections without discomfort. If you wear
boxers or PJs at night, you can clip the free end of the strap to your
waist band at the center in the back. If you sleep in the buff, route the
strap over one shoulder, down your back and under the opposite arm, and
clip it back to the elastic strap just above your penis. An alternate for
buff sleeping which has been recommended by some on the list: take a 2"
wide by about 24" long strip of terrycloth (or some other soft material),
put the two ends together, and clip one end of an elastic strip to those
ends. Step through the loop with one leg and pull the loop up as far as
it will go, making sure the clipped ends are toward your backside. If the
loop is the right size, it will stay on your butt cheek instead of pulling
itself into your crack. Pull the strap up your back, over one shoulder,
down your front, and clip it onto the T-Tape.
Another very interesting system that lots of people seem to like is
Johnny's "Pouchless Jock Strap" -- it is basically a regular jock strap
with most of its pouch cut out (leaving only the border of the pouch), and
a piece of hooked Velcro sewn to the waist band on a 45 degree angle a few
inches to each side of front-center. Then make a very short elastic strap
with a clip on one end and a piece of looped Velcro on the other. Clip
this to your T-Tape, and Velcro the other end to the waste band of the
jock strap. Johnny has a demo slide show which shows this attachment
system, as well as details of his "J-Tape" method -- download the file JTAPE.EXE (1.3mb).
A variation is to just make a waist band out of 3" wide elastic instead of
using a jock strap. I have mixed feelings about this system. It is
comfortable enough, but because the length of elastic pulling on the tape
is so short, it is hard to regulate the tension.
If you have access to a sewing machine and have a good imagination, you
can make just about any kind of strap using various widths of elastic and
nylon straps, buckles, suspender clips, and Velcro. All of these parts
are all pretty cheap at your local fabric store, so you can experiment
without spending a lot of money. If you come up with good ideas, please
share them on the list.
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- THE "HANKY TRICK": This topic has been
discussed on the mailing list, but its still a little hard to describe.
Some people take a handkerchief, and fold it on the diagonal and roll it
into a strip about an inch or so wide. They tie a loose overhand knot in
it, slip it over their penis, and push it down to the base. Now when they
tape, they clip their elastic strap onto the T-Tape, wrap the elastic
around their waist, and clip the free end to the two ends of the hanky.
Some people apparently route the tails between their legs (in their
butt-crack) and others just pull it to one side with the elastic. The
basic idea is that the elastic is always attached to two things that will
not move (like the waist band on your boxer shorts can). Some guys also
said they believe this may prevent scrotal migration (stretching of the
scrotal skin at the same time the penis skin is being stretched). I
haven't tried this "hanky trick" because I have had no problem just
clipping the strap to my boxers. Also, by wearing boxers, your penis is
fed out through the fly and lies against the cloth of the boxers rather
than your skin -- this reduces sweating, which will cause premature tape
failure. If you do use the hanky trick, you may wish to slip a paper
towel between your penis and abdomen to reduce tape-adhesion moisture
problems from sweating.
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- "O-RING" SUBSTITUTES: Its aids restoration
to keep some tension on the developing foreskin constantly, but there are
occasionally extended periods where it is not possible to wear a T-Tape
and strap (for example, when swimming, etc.). There has been lots of
discussion about using "O-Rings" during those times (pull the shaft skin
forward over the glans and place the O-Ring over the tip to keep it from
retracting back over the glans). The O-Rings are fine, but some people
say they have drawbacks. Here are a couple of good substitutes:
- Use a "Tape-Ring". Pull the skin forward over the gands, and encircle
it with a 1/4" or 1/2" wide piece of tape. If you make this the right
diameter it will keep the skin forward, but when you need to urinate you
can pop the glans through, and pull the skin back over the glans when
done. Works pretty good.
- Use a small wide Rubber Band. The problem is of course finding such a
rubber band. Try going to an office supply store, and buying a couple of
those little rubber things bank clerks wear on their finger when counting
money. Look for the gum-rubber ones (yellowish translucent appearance).
Cut a 1/4" or 3/8" rubber band from the top end of those. That band is
quite stretchy, and comfortable to wear. Some people tie a little piece
of thread to the band, and pin the other end to their underwear -- that
prevents the band from being lost should it come off in use.
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- WILL MY RESTORED FORESKIN START MORE OR LESS
WHERE THE NATURAL FORESKIN STARTED FROM? The skin from the base of
your penis to a ways past the scar line is very loosely attached to the
shaft underneath, which allows the skin to slide up and down the shaft.
However, a short distance behind your glans the skin is much more securely
attached to the shaft. When you are stretching, the loosely attached skin
is the part that stretches and grows. This results in the new foreskin
starting at about the spot where your existing skin is securely attached
to the shaft, which is usually between your scar line and the corona of
your glans. That means that the expanding skin will normally include a
little of the original and very sensitive inner foreskin.
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- OTHER INTERNET TTAPE TIPS SOURCES
Perhaps the best source of online information on TTapes, and restoration
in general, is the Gary Burlingame's "Discuss Foreskin Restoration Mail
List" -- see below for how to subscribe. There are also numerous web
sites on restoration in general, mostly authored by members of the above
mailing list. So if you hang around the list, you will see update notices
posted by the authors. One page I recommend is
Marc's T-Tape
Tips. I had been experimenting with adding additional reinforcing to
the TTapes I make, with good success. Turns out Marc had been doing the
same thing, and since he has done a fine job of documenting his work I
recommend you check out his page. Marc also has an excellent photo diary
of his progress which you can get to from his tips page.
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